Most of us come into marriage with EXPECTATIONS of what each person is to contribute to the marriage. BUT did you sit down and discuss this with each other? Did you ask God what His expectation was for your marriage? I am willing to bet you did not. I know I didn’t! I expected my … Read more
I hope the title of this blog does not offend you! However, children are the number one distraction in your marriage because they take up a majority of your time. Most married couples desire children and they should realize before they become pregnant just how much responsibility they are taking on. Both partners must agree … Read more
Funny title, right?! So many times, we get caught up in our own stuff that we get caught in a communication vacuum. WHAT IS A COMMUNICATION VACUUM, you might ask. Let me explain. When you are trying to communicate with your spouse, are you listening, really listening to what they have to say OR are … Read more
In my 17 years of marriage, I offer you a few tips to help you, as a husband, to strengthen and nourish your marriage. Tip #1: Express Appreciation How often do you tell your wife what you admire about her? How often do you express appreciation? Appreciation can be about something she did that you … Read more
I discovered the mystery of God’s will while I was reading through my Bible Plans on the Holy Bible app. See I keep pressing in; reading the Bible; praying and talking with Jesus; asking the Holy Spirit what He wants to do today, amidst all of my other responsibilities…… And I was in the book … Read more
You know, a lot of people tell us things like, “Just get a divorce” or “It’s just a piece of paper” or “He’s not good enough for you!” Well, let me tell you something…..THAT IS NOT WHAT GOD WANTS! Marriage was His idea, as it says in Genesis. Go read the book of Genesis and … Read more
HUSBANDS – 3 Questions to Ask Yourself About Yourself Are we putting the needs of our wife above our own? Are we keeping our marriage vows to God and each other? Are we modeling a good marriage to our kids? These are good questions to ask yourself and your spouse during different times of testing … Read more
When we get married, most of us think how much fun and happiness being with the ‘love of our life’ is going to be. We are excited, giddy and so full of joy. Then as the days go by, reality starts to set in. Things become harder and harder. The love we had when we … Read more
In Genesis 2:18 NLT it reads: Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him. Most women find that term ‘helper’ a little degrading because in this day and age, women can do just as much as men … Read more
God made wives to be ‘a helper’ to their husband as it says in Genesis 2:18 NLT: The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” One of the most important ways a wife can help her husband is … Read more